Friday Question: Metaphors for Trauma

Friday Question: Metaphors for Trauma

By | 2015-09-25T16:27:29+00:00 September 25th, 2015|Categories: Questions|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments

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Something to Ponder Today

This week our topic was suggested by Queenie, and inspired by one of Coyote’s posts (linked below). Metaphors can be incredibly useful tools for explaining trauma and understanding our feelings. Art is frequently symbolic, and it can be easier to express feelings generated by trauma when they are encoded in a symbolic way. So this week, let’s think about these symbols and metaphors that help us deal with trauma (and everything related to trauma).

What is your favorite metaphor or analogy for trauma?

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About the Author:

Elizabeth is a 30-something asexual woman who is often mistaken for a lesbian, due to the fact that she is partnered to a lady. She is actually bi (but not biromantic) and somewhere on the aromantic spectrum. She is formally trained in creative writing with a focus on non-fiction and poetry. She writes for The Asexual Agenda and maintains a personal blog called Prismatic Entanglements. In her spare time, she enjoys being cat furniture, coming up with new Pokemon strategies and never going to church.

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